The Illusion of Youthfulness in Lagos: A Wake-Up Call
Lagos, a city known for its vibrant nightlife, bustling energy, and endless opportunities, has a way of making time feel like it’s standing still—especially for those in their 20s.
Many young professionals, creatives, and entrepreneurs flock to Nigeria’s commercial capital with dreams and ambitions, finding themselves swept up in the fast-paced lifestyle of social events, “outside” culture, and the constant hustle.
Osi Suave, a prominent media personality, recently captured this sentiment in a viral tweet. He wrote:
“Lagos has a way of making you think you are in your 20s for a long time. One day, you will wake up, and you are 40 with nothing to show but pictures and videos of you being outside and your overpriced rental apartment.”
This reflection struck a chord with many. It’s a stark reminder that time passes quickly, and the comforts of urban distractions can mask the lack of tangible progress or personal development. The fear isn’t just aging—it’s aging without purpose, direction, or meaningful legacy.
In response to Osi’s post, a user named Ckay shared a deeply personal story that added another layer to the conversation. He wrote:
“Was enjoying my youthfulness with my wife and kids, only to wake up one day with so many things wrong with my body, from back pain to high BP, to eye problem to muscle problem. Thank God for perfecting his healing. As you hustle, take care of your health.”
Ckay’s experience highlights a parallel truth: while we chase dreams and try to make the most of our youthful energy, we often neglect our health—physical, emotional, and mental. The hustle culture can be thrilling, but it is also demanding, and without balance, it can lead to burnout or long-term health issues.
The dual narratives from Osi and Ckay serve as an important wake-up call for many urban dwellers, especially in cities like Lagos. It is not enough to be seen, to attend events, or to live in trendy neighborhoods. True growth involves building a solid foundation—financially, emotionally, professionally, and physically.
Takeaways for the Youth in Lagos and Beyond:
1. Plan Beyond the Present: Enjoy your 20s, but invest in skills, relationships, and assets that will matter in your 30s and 40s.
2. Watch Your Health: Prioritize routine checkups, fitness, and mental wellness. Health is true wealth.
3. Be Intentional: Social media highlights the fun, but life is more than curated photos. Build a life you’re proud of off-camera too.
4. Avoid Lifestyle Traps: Don’t trade long-term stability for short-term appearances. Lagos may be flashy, but substance matters more than style.
The city may never slow down, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pause and reflect.
