Be Open to Your Husbands on Bedroom Desires, Counsels Pastor. Adejumo

A recent statement by clergywoman Funke Felix-Adejumo has sparked a heated debate among Nigerians, with many taking to social media to express their opinions on the matter. During a sermon,

-Adejumo had in a sermon, urged women to be more open and honest about their desires and needs in the bedroom, emphasizing the importance of intimacy in marriage.

She told her congregation, “I like sex, if I don’t like it, how will I have children? Stop pretending you don’t like it.” She further advised women to praise their husbands after intimacy, saying “When he finishes having sex with you, tell him, ‘Good job!'”

The clergywoman’s comments have been met with a mix of reactions, with some hailing her as a bold and progressive voice, while others have criticized her for being too explicit and insensitive.

Some individuals on social media have come out in defense of her statement, arguing that she is simply promoting a healthy and honest approach to intimacy in marriage. “It’s about time someone spoke the truth about sex in marriage,” said an individual on the social media platform X. “So many women are suffering in silence, pretending to enjoy intimacy when they’re not. It’s refreshing to see a clergywoman being so open and honest about this issue.”

Others have praised Funke Felix-Adejumo for encouraging women to take an active role in their relationships and to communicate their desires and needs more effectively.

However, not everyone is pleased with Felix-Adejumo’s comments. Some have criticized her for being too explicit and insensitive, arguing that her words may be hurtful or triggering for survivors of sexual abuse or those who have experienced trauma. Others have questioned Felix-Adejumo’s authority to speak on such matters, arguing that she is a clergywoman and should be focusing on spiritual guidance rather than offering advice on intimacy.

As the debate continues to rage on, one thing is clear: Felix-Adejumo’s comments have struck a chord and sparked a much-needed conversation about sex, intimacy, and relationships in Nigeria. Whether or not one agrees with her approach, it’s undeniable that her words have challenged the status quo and encouraged people to think more critically about these important issues.